Identifying harmful and inappropriate behaviours

Harmful and inappropriate behaviour can be subtle or overt and can manifest in different forms, such as bullying, harassment, or micro-aggressions. 

Examples of these behaviours

We’ve put together some examples of different types of inappropriate behaviour to help you recognise these behaviours within your organisation.

Bullying

Spreading malicious rumours about someone

Spreading malicious rumours about someone

Spreading malicious rumours about someone

Constantly putting someone down in meetings

Constantly putting someone down in meetings

Constantly putting someone down in meetings

Deliberately giving someone a heavier workload than everyone else

Deliberately giving someone a heavier workload than everyone else

Deliberately giving someone a heavier workload than everyone else

Excluding someone from team social events

Excluding someone from team social events

Excluding someone from team social events

Putting humiliating, offensive, or threatening comments or photos on social media.

Putting humiliating, offensive, or threatening comments or photos on social media.

Putting humiliating, offensive, or threatening comments or photos on social media.

Example of bullying

Jerome has recently joined a new team at work. His new colleagues have not been very welcoming and hold team meetings without him. Jerome has missed several deadlines because he has not been attending the meetings and he is now on performance review. His colleagues continue to exclude him from team meetings and laugh amongst themselves whenever he attends progress meetings.

Harassment

Harassment and bullying are often conflated. Harassment, however, is covered by discrimination law (Equality Act 2010) and can be a serious hate crime.

Harassment can be behaviour that causes the victim to feel: 

Disrespected

Disrespected

Disrespected

Frightened

Frightened

Frightened

Humiliated

Humiliated

Humiliated

Insulted

Insulted

Insulted

Intimidated

Intimidated

Intimidated

Threatened

Threatened

Threatened

Three types of harassment

Harassment related to age, disability, gender reassignment, race, religion or belief, sex and / or sexual orientation

Harassment related to age, disability, gender reassignment, race, religion or belief, sex and / or sexual orientation

Harassment related to age, disability, gender reassignment, race, religion or belief, sex and / or sexual orientation

Sexual harassment that refers to unwanted sexual behaviours

Sexual harassment that refers to unwanted sexual behaviours

Sexual harassment that refers to unwanted sexual behaviours

A person being treated less favourably because of how they’ve responded to previous harassment (e.g. reporting it).

A person being treated less favourably because of how they’ve responded to previous harassment (e.g. reporting it).

A person being treated less favourably because of how they’ve responded to previous harassment (e.g. reporting it).

Example of harassment
(related to sex)

Clare is the only female mechanic that works in the garage. Whenever it's break time, her colleagues shout things like 'milk with two sugars, love' at her. It was funny the first couple of times, but now she feels disrespected and thinks they only treat her this way because she's a woman.

Micro-aggression

Micro-aggressions can take many different forms. For example:

Repeatedly not pronouncing or spelling an individual’s name correctly

Repeatedly not pronouncing or spelling an individual’s name correctly

Repeatedly not pronouncing or spelling an individual’s name correctly

Making assumptions about skills / abilities / temperament of an individual based on stereotypes

Making assumptions about skills / abilities / temperament of an individual based on stereotypes

Making assumptions about skills / abilities / temperament of an individual based on stereotypes

Interrupting a person when they are speaking

Interrupting a person when they are speaking

Interrupting a person when they are speaking

Ignoring individuals in meetings and in the workplace

Ignoring individuals in meetings and in the workplace

Ignoring individuals in meetings and in the workplace

Examples of micro-aggressions

Speech bubbles containing examples of verbal micro-aggressions
Speech bubbles containing examples of verbal micro-aggressions
Speech bubbles containing examples of verbal micro-aggressions

The toolkit:
Active bystander culture

Our toolkit will help you start your journey towards developing an active bystander culture.

The toolkit:
Active bystander culture

Our toolkit will help you start your journey towards developing an active bystander culture.

The toolkit:
Active bystander culture

Our toolkit will help you start your journey towards developing an active bystander culture.